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The Truth about Open AdoptionOpen adoption is presented to you like a beautiful box of candy. But when the box is opened, it is empty inside.
Read "Open Adoption The Wall" to see how open adoption may affect natural mothers, grandparents, siblings and even the child who has been adopted-out. All adoptions are based on the lie that the adopters gave birth and are the mother and father of the child they have acquired "as if" the child was born to them. When prospective adopters say they will respect the mother of the child they plan to take, this is a lie. One does not respect someone by pretending she is not her child's mother. Even if a mother has died, when a true friend is caring for her child she will help the child by acknowledging the child's mother as her mother and trying to keep the memory of the child's mother alive for her. A human being is not a "birthmother", "birthmom", "lifemother" meant to be used as the source of a baby for adoption - a mother is the mother of her own child. Don't fall for the promises of "open adoption". They may want your child, but your child needs you. Click here for unplanned pregnancy help.
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The
promises made by seemingly kind prospective adopters nearly always
fade within a year or two after an adoption is finalized. They want
a baby. But they don't want you. Natural family members must know
"their place" and be careful not to say something to upset
adopters or the "open" adoption will be closed. 